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“Hey, Nana...
people's feelings change easily...
what you see is a house of cards...
nothing's sure,
and nothing lasts forever.”

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FlSpEEB3sbA

When someone says, “You're just acting like that because of your trauma,” as a way to dismiss your feelings or blame you for needing space, what they’re really saying is:

“Your pain makes you the problem.”

And that is deeply unfair, and emotionally abusive, even if they don't realize it.

“They say that only very good friends quarrel. But at the end of the day a quarrel is a fight between two people’s egos. Since people cannot understand each other by just being honest. May be its impossible to live your whole life without getting hurt but don’t hurt the people close to you.”

― Ai Yazawa