Step 0: Trust the random online guy (me) for advice because he spent hours figuring out this.
Step 1: Buy the game
Step 2: Run the game Once without any mods (This is required for mods)
Step 3: Download and install Vortex[www.nexusmods.com]
Step 4: Download the VR Mod List [next.nexusmods.com]
Step 5: Fix the VR Mod List
1 - After Downloading all mods, download "SkyUI" latest release and drag that to vortex for installation.[github.com] - It should be named something like SkyUI.v1.2.1.7z (not the source codes)
2 - Next Find and Remove (uninstall) "Unofficial Skyrim Special Edition Patch" - causes the F*CKING GAME TO NOT RUN
3 - Download older version of "Unofficial Skyrim Special Edition Patch" [www.nexusmods.com] - And install through drag a drop on vortex
4 - Find and disable "FNIS PCEA2 - Player Exclusive Animations (dynamic) SE - FNIS PCEA2 7.2"
5 - Find and disable "BodySlide and Outfit Studio" - causes crashes when character creating
6 - Find and disable "Sexy Skyrim SE Statues v2.1" - causes conflicts with other mods
7 - Settle conflicts. It is pretty easy to do this. Just use common sense to figure out which mods go before and after.
OPTIONAL 8 - Disable "Realm of Lorkhan - No Shards Version (by Benjapo)" - this will allow the game to play its original story in the beginning. You will be floating in the cart for the first 2 min but after all the cinematics you are playing the actual story mode.
Step 6: Rate this review so other blokes can see it. You are welcome.

Game might still crash every now and then in the beginning but this will make it enjoyable to actually play. And trust me, DO NOT PLAY THIS GAME WITHOUT MODS. It sucks.