or one of the rare sincere er moments

is that sarcasm I detect

gg insane duel

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the reason for this is that the returns (how much health you get per point invested) of vigour are really good until 60, and are generally worth more than a little extra damage. Although there are of course exceptions

if you want to play at metal level pvp in elden ring (around rl125 - 133) you want at least 55-60 vigour or you're in for a rough time. Generally advisable to get to around there for the story as well, as some attacks from end game bosses will start to one shot you otherwise