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New Value-System: (based on prior core experience)
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1. If you want to know me, know me. (but don't hurt me on way to knowing me, I don't put up with that, will not put up with that).
2. Support Values/Morals not people. (very important/key)
3. Accountability not being Unaccountable. (Expectation of mine, built in to my character, decency), If I am ever wrong, then I must face up to consequence of that. and that I do/have. because that is right thing to do.
4. Assumptions, Conclusions & Judgements are to be kept-out. Assessments-of-Character before known person. Negative-Outlooks can also become 'Self-Fulfilling Prophecy'. Assume best in people and that's what you will get. Breathing behind peoples backs/prying eyes outlook. (has power to unbalance person, sew doubt where was not any doubt previously). cause/spell misfortune/bad news for individual/group of people (includes reducing expectation of group/individual). Cynical Looking-Glass / Negative-Spirit. (whatever). could be facing misery in own life that feel okay to make others subject consciously/subconsciously to same misery one is facing. Negatively projecting onto any individual. character-attacks/character-assinations, without due chance. (link to no1).
5. Solutions not problems, if don't contribute to solution. Don't make situation better for someone (why are you here?). Making it worse for others/ruining persons potential livelihood/career.
6. When people have moved forwards in life (morality of character, it shows)
7. Occasionally Giving People 2nd Chance, but won't overdo it.
8. Eventually comes to understand own mistakes when subject to same thing.
9. Values come in 'Estimation of people', unfair-beliefs comes with it. Value people first (showing respect), then comes estimation. Treatment of person comes from you, then estimation of person.
10. Looking out for unfair attitudes/behaviours/beliefs in others, many times I Remove Whole-Group of people, not 1 person.
11. Generally honest person, but learning all time. In case if forgot I am human being just like you. Experience comes from being wrong, but Experience does not Equate/Equal to being continually Wrong.
12. Annoying/Agitating/Irritating traits - Blaming people when you are responsible/involved in situation, but chose to be bystander.
13. Treating anyone 'unimportant', 2nd-person, beneath-consideration, dismissive, meat-fodder, or any of sort. under-valuated, small & diminished, anything of the sort.
14. If I feel any damage/harm is come from relationship, then my fuse/patience is but breadcrumb. I am happy to prejudice people if I believe won't come anything good from it.
15. Also not blaming others/external factors/external people but yourself.
16. Block unfair-minded people, natured people the like. (including association with such individuals).
17. See groups as issue, more than individuals. who use group to cover themselves in immoral act. who may hide behind crowds to get away with it.
18. If undermine me, you are also undermining authority. undermining strong values.
19. last but not least. unless something unforgivable, forgive and move on.
20. Communication, but when I say communication, I don't mean communicating and then not valuing what a person has to say, but extracting gold-mineral from the rock (even if do not agree, any person is never entirely wrong). communication does not mean inciting people not to communicate if what they say does not matter in any shape/form.
21. Weak-armor, easily insulted, can't deal with healthy amount of anything comes way.
22. Differing value system, might make hard to work together, agree what do agree and work based on this, or don't work together at all.
23. Value open and honest communication, so if see something don't like, then either communicate or put up with it. passive-aggression is not tolerated.
24. Things can change, If see any opposite-positive behaviour, giving compliment, giving compassion, making positive-statement, making more reasonable/fair statement. its possible that a person may remain on good-books despite any error. if it is working towards a better/brighter/positive future.
25. Energy and vibes, frequencies. if don't give me right one. I feel energy, so I know how I feel. lookout for mind-games, stuff like that.
26. Causing suffering to others and trying to get away with it, in the way that it plants blame onto victims to deal with after-effects to deal with. bad-actors (I do not forget). minus-rep to another member, including mine. backstab/betrayal/betrayed. 'Reverse Victim-Card'.
27. Double-Standard Behaviour. more wrong for others to be wrong, but yourself? not as much...
28. Refuse to be held responsible for things, not responsible. I do not own accountability, not mine. accept fair reasoned blame, not unfair-irrational or unreasonable blame. very firm, in the same way would not expect others to clean up/responsible for my acts.
29. Attitude to things, mentality, belief-system, faulty beliefs, liable cause trouble.
30. People who, do things of integrity, but not valued. (not worthwhile). not worth trouble, not worth extending arm to.
31. Only about your feelings, not others (too).
32. Dismissive attitudes, dismissing viewpoint, outlook, and more.
33. Disproportionate-Blame / Exaggeration - There's a point of being felt where overly wrong, where frankly... had enough. (point of causing another causing trouble / intimidation / control), there is a threshold of what is acceptable, what is not. cross the line, into manipulation / exploitation / mean. You are now actually, trespassing on my turf. I do NOT deserve it. serious violation of dignity.

The amount of patience I give to a person, is dependent on those factors, with some I have very short-fuse. Zero Tolerance for any harmful behaviours, directly or indirectly. difference lies not in being perfect, but in being ACCOUNTABLE. Original-Moto is 'accountability, not perfection'. My 2nd Moto however is long-fuse? or short-fuse? means based on assessment. I can choose whether to dwindle my own patience for people. I will not stretch out/overextend for people who patience is clearly wasted on. like a battleship scanning for individuals who not right and eliminating from list.

If I have seen negligible behaviour or believe nothing good will come from relation, then I WILL put on block list. (form of consequence/red-flag, also to let individuals know I don't condone in recent behaviour). Neglect (Omission of right-thing), or the Reverse. (Disrespect) I would much prefer to be lone-wolf if the failure of behaviour is 'Widespread'. As member of gaming-community, I am also to be valued, and preserve that right. (could be any sub-par group that are acting in unison/unisonally involved in perpetuating injust behaviour/shared attitudes amongst its people).

To show I am serious, I will start blocking people who habitually cause a problem for me. people who, most part are clearly not worth it. not worth hassle/time/patience. unless counter-evidence statement can be made, this is way I would like to keep it. thanks. any form of toxicity/toxic-character. I'm entitled to my beliefs, like you. If you don't like moral-structure, then take-them-up or leave period... Because its not going to work out here (as group), and not going to inspire good-effect/reward. I will NOT ENDURE anything that I should not forced put up with. the way i deal with negativity is I don't deal with it, I remove it entirely. (before get enmeshed with same infection others infected by). Sry but, I have to be very-thorough with people... if uncooperative then it stops here. may prefer to keep company with positive-individuals (outlook). it may take a long while, before restore trust/faith in people. or negative-FATE. (between pe