Environment Needs to Feel:
1. Supportive/understanding, not reverse
2. Show Kindness
3. Remain Patient.
4. Reduce STIGMA Tendencies ( I know easy to judge, but don't )
5. Non Cynical attitude (denigration so on)
6. Mediation/mediator/bridging-member may be needed, to control dynamic of the group. (sometimes can take 2 people for rest of group to heed a message, manage it better, provide power/understanding where it lacks, to reinforce a main point).

Certain Traits / patterns (clunky socializer, may become less with time):
1. May be Occasional Luls in conversation (pls don't mistake for hostility, etc weirdness/awkwardness/silence-treatment/etc, sometimes I run out of ink, or thinking on something)

2. Clunky/Jankiness/Blunt/Occasional Loudness in tone (resulting in unexpected/inconsistent, 'Social Trajectory' isn't always right, rather than being soft/predictable, may be lesser predictable etc, does not mean negative intent but can be construed this way, function of mis-execution).

3. Unauthodoxy when comes to social aspect, things which expected but not applied, reading social cues (I do not, literally cannot), I get occasional hint but I mean I can't see the miniture of what is intended in like peoples actions etc. mistiming of things, approach perhaps.

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No Social Judgement Please (Trying my very very best). Socially Struggle. (may result in negative social outcome). requires your support and understanding.

Accountability/Responsibility/Self-Awareness (Priority) - We all make mistakes and no-one is perfect, Every interaction is chance to learn something about myself. I will continue to adjust myself best I can. I require one thing, and one thing only, your support and understanding, as I try to navigate complex social aspect. lack of social-skills is problematic and one trying to fix, onset developmental delay occurring from late social diagnostic stifling social-progress (Asperger syndrome / Selective-Mute, barely spoke at all, and resulting effect is I stifled my Social progress). Every interaction I have leads to new understanding of myself.

Require forgiveness / compassion and non-judgemental front. Aware of being prone to social issues. (I will humbly admit). Viewed myself as 'inferior-neurotypical' early age, not indeed someone who was lately diagnosed with condition affected in my interactions with people. I require someone to point out social mistakes though its quite obvious. Openly admits to being a problem. unfortunately one place I fall down at, and misfortune meant haven't been able to catch up.

Hard working guy, Highly Intelligent/knowledgeable person, but social skills (social intelligence). just let me down. open and forefront about this. Affects level of social-competence.

- Not Understanding Certain Social Boundaries/parameters. (sometimes)
- Lack of Aware in Social-Aspect (new to me)
- Social Cues (Mind-Reading)
- Social-Navigation (aspects)
- Result Misunderstandings (personality/intent etc so on).

All of this knowledge is... New to me. (highly unexpected).

May have to isolate if things don't work out. or claim on discrimination law, if I be subject to a non-inclusive / Socially-Inclusive environment. (options available). plz no stereotyping of people lack social skills, or understimating/insensitive to issues. at least something aware of now, than I used to be.

Have Autism-Alert Card at home, to showcase this.

In case of negative social outcome, I will have to Protect myself. and unfortunately have to resort to such measures. (and close social network, who understand this as well, may have to get involved, alerted to presence of social difficulties). choosing to ignore, not to believe, or provide credibility will have own consequences. not in mere words, but in DIRECT REAL ACTION. as lack of regard. Im not perfect socialiser but I am least aware of certain things. ignorance/dismissal or anything else will also pose a problem.

certain things to do to UNLOCK me, to unlock me have to help me work on social-aspect. high-functioning autism. so I have high level of awareness/intelligence. quick to understand things.
Ablist/Disablist/Discriminatory/Non-Inclusive views will be witnessed and felt, may lead into illegal practices. (as now have knowledge of the law).

I take responsibility for mistakes, but I cannot assume PERFECTION. if that's your idea. then we really should not be playing together. value different things.

If you are unsure, dm me and ask what may required to make things run smoother. content to communicate/pre negotiate if brings peace/security. (later on).

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