Their is a time to hold hate and their is a time to let go of that hate. Now is that time to let go of all of it. You never really want to deal with a person who is so bitter that they ruin whatever it is that they are doing. Just like you don't want to invite that one kid who is always in the corner. I invite them over because you have no clue how even the smallest things can affect a persons life.

Sports:
Football
Soccer
Paintball
Rugby
Lacrosse
Mma
BJJ

You dont know how your life is going to turn out so take a chance and go for everything. You are the only one who decides what your life will be like and you are the only one holding your self back