If any man loveth not the Lord, let him be anathema.

There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God— having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.

"Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others"

"Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. For the Scriptures say, 'I will take revenge; I will pay them back,' says the Lord"

When you are in Christ, you are a new creation, and the old has gone, the new has come.
You are chosen, adopted, forgiven, and redeemed, with every spiritual blessing from God.
This identity is not based on your performance but on your relationship with Christ, making you a child of God, loved and treasured.

A lack of awareness of one's own need for forgiveness results in little love.