Everybody thinks when you go ghost & stay to yourself you're being weird or acting funny But the truth is, I’m just trying to survive. Nobody prepares you for how hard life can hit. You outgrow people you thought you’d have forever, lose loved ones who were part of your journey, and watch your plans unravel in ways you never expected.Even when you’re overwhelmed, life doesn’t pause for you. You still have to clock in, show up to class, handle responsibilities, and somehow take care of yourself in the process. That's adulthood & it's hard. Be more kind & understanding. Give yourself grace. Everything ain't always about yall.

I’m on a weekend break with a friend of mine and we’ve spent 2 nights at place together, at which there’s only one bed so we’ve been sharing a bed which I made sure she was comfortable with.

Fast forward to when we get into bed, she falls asleep pretty quickly and I’m still awake so I decided to jerk off because I normally do it after I get into bed because it genuinely does help me fall asleep, and I thought she was long gone so there wouldnt be any chance of her waking up.

I’ll spare the details but basically she woke up and realized what I was doing. It was awkward as ♥♥♥♥ and I just feel like an ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ because now it’s kind of weird between us and we made plans for today but now it’s kinda like she doesn’t really want to talk to me. How can I make it less awkward, I’ve already apologized like a million times.

The undisputed cleavage queen of the day. I'll put you on the cover of my new book ... "HAMBURGER" She Loved the Quarter Pounder until she tried the Whopper! 👌🌹

You work 8 hours to live 4.
You work 5 days to enjoy 2.
You work 8 hours to eat in 15 minutes.
You work 8 hours to sleep 6
You work all year just to take a week or two vacation.
You work all your life to retire in old age.
And watch only your last breaths.
Eventually, you realize that life is nothing but a parody of yourself practicing your own oblivion.
We have become so accustomed to material and social slavery that we no longer see the chains..⛓️
Life is a short trip,
Live it up and enjoy those memories 💙🙏🏽💙

Anddddd another thing… U know what's super attractive... When a man can CALMLY talk to you in times of disagreement. EVEN in spite of their frustration at the moment. Not being a hot head & start talking crazy, no name calling, no character assassination, literally none of that. Just calmly & rationally responding with patience & diligence. That is GROWTH!!! Really brings out that softness & feminine in me 🥰❤️

As an older guy, my perspective is that things are not as safe/easy as they used to be to approach a woman. I had a girl scoff at me for just glancing her way, and it was in no way checking her out, and i am happily married, so there was no interest shown whatsoever. If I were dating today, I would be hard-pressed to approach women today. It's not easy out there. It wasn't easy 20 years ago, but it wasn't as tough as today.