changing the world is as difficult as changing your mind, because the result is the same~

Dont ask for other peoples advice, they can only project their own mindsets and hope it resonates with you. Only you can dig yourself out of something

Originally posted by DeliciousProlapseJuice:

will everything be ok
will everything be ok

Depends on how far in the future you go.
Most things heal over time from damage and suffering but after a while, everyone dies.

Unfortunately, for some people, it won't ever get better before they die. But the probability of being that very unlucky sucker is not too terribly high so - for you - it probably will get better.

Originally posted by Lime:

changing the world is as difficult as changing your mind, because the result is the same~

Terminal values aren't easy to change, though. You're probably not going to take a pill that makes you forget about whatever you cared about and make you just want to collect stamps instead, because while collecting stamps would be easier, such a magic pill doesn't exist and you're probably going to fight pretty hard to prevent yourself from being forced to take that pill if it ever does get created, for the very simple fact that something like you with different terminal values, arguably isn't you, and thus who you were before they got changed would have died.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hEUO6pjwFOo

Originally posted by lol:

... Only you can dig yourself out of something

What are first responders doing with sniff dogs and rapidly clearing away blocks of rubble after earthquakes and building collapses then?

Incomparable. Youre referencing physical acts saving lives, not words. You have zero interest nor the means of PHYSICALLY helping ops life

Rain still falls on you, standing
still. Might as well move through
the storm.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dOyXdwXt8d4

It gets worse

Originally posted by lol:

You have zero means of PHYSICALLY helping ops life

That part is true.

Originally posted by lol:

You have zero interest of PHYSICALLY helping ops life

That part is NOT true.

Originally posted by lol:

Incomparable. Youre referencing physical acts saving lives, not words. You have zero interest nor the means of PHYSICALLY helping ops life

It's not incomparable.
OP isn't likely in an emergency so there's probably only a very low chance that someone will be trying to "dig them out" of whatever situation that they're in, unlike an emergency situation where you can probably bet that a team of around 30 people would be trying to help, HOWEVER, that does not mean that no one might come along to help.

...and if the day comes that an angel arrives and offers you a way out, - take it -
don't be like that guy from that one joke / parable who got stuck on a tiny strip of land in a flood and turned down a cruise ship, a sailboat, and a rowboat who offered help, each time saying "No thank you, God will save me", and then he drowned and when he got to heaven, he asked God, "WHY DIDN'T YOU SAVE ME?!" and God responded, "I sent you 3 boats, dummy!"

everything will be ok at the end and if its not okay yet then its not the end

ask the crazy tarot card lady, or the magic 8 ball..... just remember to NOT believe it.

Your life and history is different than OPs, all you can do is give advice that worked for you/what you think will work for others. At most we are just empathetic catharsis, but its up to OP to turn the ship around

It will not for the OP.

Come online with a name like that and the future will not be kind.

Well, as the saying goes

https://youtu.be/l3VqAsMXE7o?si=4kccNXgqvNX_n6Lf

Life's better now?

Only if you want it to. Yes there are a ton of speed bumps and pot holes in the road of life, but if you plan for it then yes, it inevitably comes to fruition. Just stay out of trouble :)