where do i find the mailboxes which ship the narcotics???

when i try to place my bed in my residence its say i have to place it in my residence (i tried restarting but nothing helped)

There is obviously a DLC to this game, but it tells me that due to my settings and preferences I cannot see it. I understand that this is an adult thing, but I have not activated any filters that I can see. It might have to do with language settings, but I have activated English and German. Can anybody help me out here? What filters might be responsible for me not seeing the DLC? I wish there was a simple way to just "temporarily override your set filters"....

I noticed this game got updated last month so I would love to hear from all you folks about the adult content dlc improvements?. Has it ♥♥♥♥♥♥ improved or will be improved later on this year?.

Game does not stay in English. I have Steam Client in English, Windows in German. Game starts in German, I can switch to English in the settings, when I start next time it's in German again.