Don’t let her die in the intro. Obviously
Free her from the pod, don’t be a jerk about it. Approval starts here.
Shadowheart likes privacy. Ask about her past sometimes, but don’t spam the “Tell me everything” options.

-Be kind.
-Help children (Tieflings, specifically).
-Heal animals, pet Scratch the dog.
-Persuasion/Deception checks = hot.
- Avoid random slaughter, she’s not into murderhobo energy.

Build at least ~20 approval before the celebration.
When she offers to share a bottle by the waterfall — always accept.
If you get the option for a kiss (Insight DC 5), take it

Found in the Shadow-Cursed Lands. This is basically the BG3 equivalent of buying her flowers IRL.
Hand it over with a smile. :)


Spare Nightsong → She defies Shar, opens up emotionally, and may ask if you want something serious.
Kill Nightsong → She stays in Shar’s grip, romance still possible, but colder tone.
I like to make, her choose. She tends to spare her.

Approval continues to matter. Keep the clever dialogue, avoid cruelty, stay mysterious enough to keep her curious.

If you’ve spared Nightsong and built trust, she might invite you for a swim. Respond with something cheeky like “You first”
This is one of the most charming moments in the whole game.

She might dream out loud about leaving Shar and living quietly with animals in a cottage.
This is where you confirm your “happily ever after” route.

This was everything i did to make her fall in love with me, i hope this helps you as well!

Or if all fails. USE MODS!
Overexplained Interaction Options (See the outcome)[www.nexusmods.com]
No Romance Limit (No chance you accidentally cheat on shadowheart ;)[www.nexusmods.com]