This may sound a bit strange, but I would like to find certain players who have a pleasant nature and are also keen to play this game together in a cool, fun but also tactical way.
I already went through some reviews and groups for interesting profiles, which is how I found you, and I am still looking but there are also quite a few with a questionable attitude.

Maybe there is a group or a discord group for finding players, i played mostly random and yes sometimes there are goons but at least the time where i played that was not very often.

crashes were rare, i had a few but really not much. that black screen with a few sounds i have never experienced.

Another thing, the game has a few pitfalls like weird bugs and glitches but sometimes it
gets stuck right at the start of a session, you see a black screen, the time above is running,
a few isolated sounds can be heard, and then I get kicked out again and have to start all over.
Then I already had a few crashes and twice a blue screen where I had to restart my computer,
Has this happened to you as well? Do I have to get used to it? Because I'm just wondering
if I can get used to it.
One last thing, do you have any advice on how I can find pleasant players for private rounds? sometimes to often there are players who act super selfish, I mean why make it even more easier for the Predator to slaughter you right away ; )
Even if I don't want to talk audibly in the game, I think it would be great to play in a team where everyone interacts and looks out for each other and maybe with certain roles.
I think that would be so much more fun, would you be up for something like that?

Aye when you mentioned ping the first time, I remembered that I kinda knew about the internet connection stuff, I was just wondering why the value varies so much. Yesterday I checked again and it was mostly very similar. But as you said, it always depends a bit, sometimes the connection is a bit worse although you don't do anything differently than usual.

The ping depends on your internetproivider, your method of connection and theressources of your hardware. if you have a good connection and somewhat decent hardware and you do not download the internet while playing you should be between 30 - 60, 70 -100 is in the mid but in fps games you definatly have some disadvantages. above 100 to 150 is hig and you will be at a disadvantage because your actions have notable lag compared to other players and over 250 is very bad and you experience notable lag between your action"click for example" and the servers reaction. ping depends also on the complete networkpath to your hardware, including other people in your network at home.

if you start a game you are always alpha because for the game that is just the first player joining the lobby if i remember correctly. if you join others games you should be another position. but all players are equal in rights ther eis no leader, aplha is just the first player.

Ah of course! I just didn't realise that straight away as I've hardly ever played online multiplayer games like that before. I often see a value of around 120 ms but this often varies even though I don't do anything, sometimes it's 60 ms then 32 ms, is there something I should do or does it work as it is? The Thing is I am always A, and what you say makes total sense, but apart from that, is it somehow still important? I don't always have to be alpha, especially when other players think I'm the boss and I'm only just finding my feet : D more or less ; )

the numbers are the ping in miliseconds. and a,b,c,d is the position inside the team: alpha, beta, charie, delta. it is spoken out because over the radio an a or c can be lost or misunderstood, but alpha and charlie is even under bad radio connectin destinguishable