In the sound and display options you can find a setting called, Device for on-screen prompts. If you're using keyboard and mouse switch it to that setting.

Also when in any menu rightclick to get a smaller popup menu with quick actions like back, accept, help, etc.

Hold E and press RMB or LMB to put a weapon into two hand mode then press shift + rightclick to use ash of war abilities.

Disable DoF and Motion Blur to get rid of most stuttering issues besides area loading.

If you hadn't noticed this game does not rely heavily on video memory. Everyone blaming fromsoftware that their 3080 isn't running the game is somewhat mistaken. THIS GAME IS RAM AND PROCESSOR HEAVY. Even with 32 gigs of ram I pull 30-70% of it depending on game location. Consider your cpu and ram when optimizing the game.

Make sure your cpu isn't being bogged down by other applications for smoother performance.

Don't Die, Just Dodge, Praise Rump.

And Finally,

Seek hole
and then Offer seed.

Thank you for coming to my TED talk.