Step 1. - What the hell are you doing trying to enjoy this game. Please. Don't. Play. It.

But in all seriousness tho, I recommend playing this game with the sole mentality of yes, get better, but no don't care about the game so much that you get tilted. Honestly It is extremely demotivating to care about rank and ELO. A lot of players with high hours will say the same thing. Disappointment fuels toxicity. hf.