Women are programmed genetically to be cute, feminine, and attractive during their best years. This triggers your brain to "fall in love" , you become addicted to them, their looks and personality. But theyre also programmed to take advantage and manipulate you once youre under their spell. Theres a reason "witches' exist in works of fiction going back centuries. "Love" is basically a spell women put on you. And this was in the past, now youre lucky to even come across a cute, feminine and attractive woman with a good personality to being with. It was a losers/gamblers game before, now its a morons/suicidal game. In the past men didnt really know any better. It was easier for these girls to manipulate them. More of them were feminine then too. Now a lack of feminine women, poor personalities, and more widespread lack of knowledge of the dangers of marriage/relationships. Any man should not be doing anything other than casual sex or monk mode.