Dated a Chinese boy when interracial relationships were not as common. Was judged by his relatives because I was a "dirty" Malay, and not good enough for him. I understand Mandarin, and the amount of insults thrown my way was actually pretty bad, so much so that even now, almost 20 years later I still refuse to acknowledge that relative. Married him anyway, and got two children, though my daughter looks more malay-indian, and I still get looks from kaypo people when I send her to childcare and stuff. Even had a case where someone asked him: "Is this your mommy?