All in all, I’m fine with being quiet. I like taking the back seat to observe. Just by doing that, I feel like I’m a part of a conversation. If someone’s complaining I never share things with them (this is usually people I’m not that close with), it doesn’t really affect me. I’m not going to do it just to please others. I try to be careful not to be too quiet though, in order to not be rude or hurtful or miss out on opportunities I would like to go for. Once I’ve thought them through, of course.