Here's the story of my first MB warband playthrough:
-so i created a female noble
-worked my way up and became a vassal in the kingdom of swadia.
-took out 2 castles on my own but the king gave it both to someone else.
-i got pissed so i renounced my oath.
-Was running around from town to town till I saw this girl
-Turns out she was suppose to be the queen of swadia
-So i swore an oath to her
-and set off to conquer swadia in her name
-king of swadia was super sexist so i hired a bunch of female mercenaries and upgraded them just to mock him
-went around talking to other lords/nobles of swadia and found out half of them know about the supposed queen of sadia and are unhappy with the current king, so i swayed them to side to me
-we went about conquering the entire kingdom successfully
-while i was mopping up the remaining swadian lords i noticed that some of the lords that sided with me were having a meeting with sadia queen in a castle
-now this is the interesting part, see this was my first playthrough and i had no idea about some mechanics of the game. Some of the lords who sided with me were pretty much not friendly towards me and only sided with me coz they want the queen on the throne.
-so i panicked. i thought they were going against me so i organized an attack on the castle then proceeded to wipe them out in a costly battle
-turns out they were just celebrating the victory. ayyy lmao
-so i wipe out the swadian kingdom a second time and take out the swadia queen.
-I established my own kingdom named after me, Tan's Kingdom