Just be who you are, like what you like, love who you love. You're valid, no matter who you are. Unless you like murder and little kids. Then you're not valid and you REALLY need some therapy. Like, damn dude. That ain't gonna' get you nowhere good and it's really in your best interest to try to better yourself rather than being in prison for the rest of your life. Like, come on. You don't want that, the family of those people don't want that bad ♥♥♥♥, and you can even help a poor therapist make their rent.