For context, my husband, 46M is a stay-at-home father. I, 44F, work at a local hooters from 9 to 5 everyday to make sure our kids get a good education at a high tier school and so I usually only need him to cook and clean for our 6 year old daughter, Laquisha. Well, the other day I got home from a rough shift (had to REALLY earn my tips that day) and I walked in on him smoking zaza with Laquisha. I instantly flew into a rage and told him that this was unacceptable and that we had to divorce. I also said that I didn't want custody of our weed infested daughter. He said I was overreacting, despite him knowing my absolute hatred of marijuana. Am I The Asshole for making him and Laquisha bite the curb? Was there a better way of approaching the situation?