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BossGalaga 13 Feb, 2019 @ 3:44am
Forum Drama v2
In regards to "the drama", I am aware of it, although I have not been completely following it since the beginning.

Spoopy, you need to stop engaging and responding to users that you have an issue with. Block communication with them and ignore their posts on the forum. Do not follow their profiles, do not post comments on their profiles. Do not reply to them in the forums. Do not reply or post to them or about them, indirectly either.

Additionally, your friends "defending" you by posting comments on those users' profiles are not helping you. They are making things worse. You need to tell them to stop or disassociate yourself from them. They have gone beyond simply defending and are actively trolling and stalking. This is not acceptable behavior and they are not good friends if they continue to do this.

In regards to comments about KillahInstinct, while I have known him to be somewhat blunt and perhaps seeming harsh at times, I do believe that as a moderator he was fair and he has contributed a lot to the Steam Community over the years. And sometimes, people deserve the harshness. A lot of the crap that the mod team has put up with on the Steam forums for years, would have got people permabanned without warning on any other forum.

I encourage you to more carefully consider what you post in the future and to stop engaging with people who have asked you to.

Vixinity, I'm addressing these comments to you generally as all involved parties are not members of this group. These group forums are public though, so they may read them.
I haven't seen this from you personally so much but some of your friends(?) or J's friends also appear to be actively looking for opportunities to bait and troll Spoopy, especially on the CSGO forums and often about really inane stuff. Similarly, this is not helpful. I would encourage those people who have a problem with Spoopy or any other users, to block them as well. I'm not saying that you don't have any legitimate issues but a lot of it gets drowned out by this back and forth trolling taking place between Spoopy, some of his friends, and some of your and J's friends.

I would also encourage both parties to stop using moderators profiles as some sort of battleground. Those moderators with open profile comments are open so users may address concerns with them. They should not be used for personal feuds.

I'm here on Steam to play games, share stories with fellow gamers and of course, complain and argue about stuff like every internet forum ever, but not like this. This isn't fun drama. This is "no me gusta" drama and it only contributes negativity to the Steam Community. These are my current thoughts on the matter.
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TehSpoopyKitteh 13 Feb, 2019 @ 3:52am 
I have actively asked my friends to stop doing what they do on profile pages. If they act out, it is not on my hands. I don't know how much of it has continued since my asking since I have not kept track of that sort of thing on anybody's profiles. Upon visiting Vixie's profile it became clear to me as to what was going on. In this group I had asked her not to bring up personal drama several times before she actually complied. I am sorry that it even happened.


Unfortunately I feel that stuff like this will not help matters at all in the long run. I have done nothing wrong within the group that I know of.

The attacks on me therein were not warranted by any means and were simply a means to trigger a drama that has nothing to do with this group. I hearby motion that the attackers be banned temporarily. If it happens again, then permanently. The type of behavior displayed towards me has absolutely nothing to do with this group and will NOT be tolerated any further.
Last edited by TehSpoopyKitteh; 13 Feb, 2019 @ 7:00am
I still disagree to use ferrets as an insult......
budozero 13 Feb, 2019 @ 8:50am 
A response like this is a "I am not into drama but..." reply. Its not about doing right or wrong, its about this situation stopping. And even if you are in the right, sometimes you have to shut up and take it for the greater good.

Attacks or perceptions of attacks, warranted or not, only become drama once you allow it, once you respond. IMO, you should have just silently taken what Boss had to say on board.
TehSpoopyKitteh 13 Feb, 2019 @ 8:52am 
Originally posted by budozero:
A response like this is a "I am not into drama but..." reply. Its not about doing right or wrong, its about this situation stopping. And even if you are in the right, sometimes you have to shut up and take it for the greater good.

Attacks or perceptions of attacks, warranted or not, only become drama once you allow it, once you respond. IMO, you should have just silently taken what Boss had to say on board.
I have. No worries mate.
Yup just like a user that baits, and puts out false claims on mod profiles right now to start drama. So I moved on.

Sadly I had to block him since he can't or doesn't seem to want to understand how things work and I'm not interested in it. (I would have like to not add him to the block list as it only has 23 people on it but sometimes we have to do stuff we don't like to move on).
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TehSpoopyKitteh 13 Feb, 2019 @ 9:22am 
Thank you all for the advice. I take it heart.
@Boss: Yes sir.

@Spoopy: If you can do as Boss asked and stop persisting on contacting those of us (on our profiles) who already told you you’re not welcome, then I won’t have anything to say about it since I don’t go on the forums anymore and only stick to profiles.
Bumbefly (we/All) 13 Feb, 2019 @ 3:32pm 
:nosound: an emoji i used in conversation with Spoopy yesterday. Boy am i glad i took a leave of absence from most of the comments waiting for me at that right top corner of my Steam screen.
But ehm.... i'm not a no-sound guy. I did say about the same as BossGalaga now does here, augmented with that all important
"And even if you are in the right, sometimes you have to shut up and take it for the greater good." Budozero added.

Since this is written here, i would like to repeat Spoopy should to take to heart to adhere to that
"And even if you are in the right, sometimes you have to shut up and take it for the greater good."
If Spoopy cools down, then i am confident Vixinity and her friends will cool down immediatly. Very likely taking less time then Funz/Fonzy and friends would need to calm down. About Funz & Fonzy i am less confident if they are willing to atm, as fired yup as they are. Being fired up is why i think they first need some time to calm down a bit, just enough to be able to want to calm down some more. I certanly do think they eventually will want to.
There is about a simmular issue around Crashed (no matter rootcouses may seem different to some) where attacks on Crashed may turn into attacks on Spoopy and vice versa. That should be stopped as well.

After all, (in my eyes) all of the lead-rol players here belong with the "good guys". Now please act like it.
TehSpoopyKitteh 13 Feb, 2019 @ 3:39pm 
Originally posted by Vika “Vixinity” Volkonskaya:
@Boss: Yes sir.

@Spoopy: If you can do as Boss asked and stop persisting on contacting those of us (on our profiles) who already told you you’re not welcome, then I won’t have anything to say about it since I don’t go on the forums anymore and only stick to profiles.
I’m down with that. Though, I do advise that you look at the forums from time to time as well. It’s a bit of an 👁 opener ;-)
Last edited by TehSpoopyKitteh; 13 Feb, 2019 @ 3:40pm
To face ir up, people that are spreading flames, should get punished, i was banned for less from the German forum.

What does it say about this group, when we have the number one drama queen in it?
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