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No matter of yours.

avoiding

What, you want details? I gave you a pretty obvious answer, did I not?

Again, no matter of yours.

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Let me guess, you were beaten?

No matter of yours.

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Why, again, did they ever come to the conclusion they are the alphas? I think we can both agree that bullies don't only come from families which spoil them, they also come from families that regularily attempt to destroy them. So why, then? What's the issue?

The issue is that as a parent, you fucked up earlier. And now you find it necessary to resort to violence to make up for your mistake.

And no. It doesn't stop a human. You beat up a human, they come back with a vengenance.

Well then, how would your derailing ass work with a kid bullying others on purpose and because his parents are not terrible?

Like last time. Trap, break his arm three times over and with a hand on his throat very calmly ask him why.

There's a difference. I'm talking about beating up your own kids. Not about kids who are too long gone terrorising other kids.

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Oh really now?

How come that kid is where he's at? How come they feel like what they're doing to others is okay? Oh right, your answer is "cuz they didn't feel the pain on their own". Wouldn't start with the influence that's making them think violence gets them anywhere, would you? Nuh-uh, resorting to violence is my only option. 'Cause at that point, beating someone up is gonna stop them.

You need to revisit your reasoning.

My answer would be: because they falsely find themselves being the alphas. And yes, beating someone for doing something would stop him from doing that again. At least it works with cats and dogs.

Why, again, did they ever come to the conclusion they are the alphas? I think we can both agree that bullies don't only come from families which spoil them, they also come from families that regularily attempt to destroy them. So why, then? What's the issue?

The issue is that as a parent, you fucked up earlier. And now you find it necessary to resort to violence to make up for your mistake.

And no. It doesn't stop a human. You beat up a human, they come back with a vengenance.

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There is a difference between "being a nice parent" and "not beating up your kids".

Try to learn it before you have kids yourself.

Young people need to learn discipline, witout it they will achieve nothing in life.

That's cute, lass. You obviously had too much of that discipline if you need to spout your opinions on the internet, innit?

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Cool. If you think beating your kids is cool, I'll make sure to put that bullet through your head soon enough.

Being 'The nice parent' isn't always an option.

Sometimes niceness doesn't work.

There is a difference between "being a nice parent" and "not beating up your kids".

Try to learn it before you have kids yourself.

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When your brat gets out of hand, you're a bad parent for having to resort to violence to discipline them.

Kill yourself.

Why hey there, good (not) parent, let me see you trying to talk to your kid bullying everybody, hearing "fuck off dad it's not a phase" in response.

Oh really now?

How come that kid is where he's at? How come they feel like what they're doing to others is okay? Oh right, your answer is "cuz they didn't feel the pain on their own". Wouldn't start with the influence that's making them think violence gets them anywhere, would you? Nuh-uh, resorting to violence is my only option. 'Cause at that point, beating someone up is gonna stop them.

You need to revisit your reasoning.

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Nah. People who think beating their kids is fine need to be purged. No other option is acceptable.

When your brat gets out of hand, he deserves the spanking.

When your brat gets out of hand, you're a bad parent for having to resort to violence to discipline them.

Kill yourself.

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Nah. People who think beating their kids is fine need to be purged. No other option is acceptable.

It is fine, these little idiots need to be taught a lesson.

Says the guy who's never been touched in his life, eh?

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Cool. If you think beating your kids is cool, I'll make sure to put that bullet through your head soon enough.

I think you got it wrong.

Nah. People who think beating their kids is fine need to be purged. No other option is acceptable.