lets say you are on a trip to the park with your mother and your wife/gf and neither of those 2 know how to swim. there is a river in the park and both of them happen to fall into the water and is in danger of drowning. but the circumstance is just so that you are only able to save one of them and the other will certainly drown. who would you save? id save my wife/gf since my mother is very old anyway and i possibly have the chance to spend the rest of my life with my gf.