https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uSvJaYxRoB4

When one just wants intercourse and the other wants fun.

It's a conversation opener, but I wouldn't read any more into it than that.

I ask my students if they're enjoying themselves on trips; not trying to get into their pants (college kids, but I am both very married and very creeped out by the idea of crossing that line).

If the question escalates to anything else, that's a better tell--but just asking someone if they're having a good time is pretty neutral in the lists of love.

This sounds quite neutral. Here are some more playful alternatives:

“Hey, having fun without me?”

"Hey, having fun yet... or is that my job?"

"Hey, are you having fun? Or should I come over and spice things up?"

"Is it just me, or is it getting more fun now that I'm here?"

I wouldn't take it that way. I would just take it as the person hoping I am enjoying myself. Sounds pretty considerate, really!

Originally posted by An Irate Walrus:

It's a conversation opener, but I wouldn't read any more into it than that.

I ask my students if they're enjoying themselves on trips; not trying to get into their pants (college kids, but I am both very married and very creeped out by the idea of crossing that line).

If the question escalates to anything else, that's a better tell--but just asking someone if they're having a good time is pretty neutral in the lists of love.

Fair. My boyfriend said hes flirting with you but I see it as Im not talking in VC and he wanted to see if Im enjoying playing with them. However, my bf insisted that its flirty to specifically DM me and ask. So I wasnt sure if he was or my bf is reading too much into it.

Originally posted by Good Night Owl:

I wouldn't take it that way. I would just take it as the person hoping I am enjoying myself. Sounds pretty considerate, really!

Thats how I see it but wasnt sure, thank you.

Originally posted by Cinnamoon_dragon:

This sounds quite neutral. Here are some more playful alternatives:

“Hey, having fun without me?”

"Hey, having fun yet... or is that my job?"

"Hey, are you having fun? Or should I come over and spice things up?"

"Is it just me, or is it getting more fun now that I'm here?" :8bitheart:

Lmao Im going to send this to my BF.

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Originally posted by Velvet:

DMed me in the game and said "Hey, are you having fun", is that flirting or a normal message to ask if Im having fun with the group?

he wants you ti be the mother of his children

Originally posted by WarHeRo:

Originally posted by Velvet:

DMed me in the game and said "Hey, are you having fun", is that flirting or a normal message to ask if Im having fun with the group?

he wants you ti be the mother of his children

Damn, that quickly? I must be so charmig!

Seems like a normal thing to ask someone.

The real sad thing is people can not normally ask basic questions without people thinking they are ether creepy or so on now a days. Unless it is a guy asking a guy a normal question or a girl asking a girl a normal question.

If your profile looks even remotely like a female's then pretty much every interaction you receive is flirtatious.

Originally posted by Dominic:

Seems like a normal thing to ask someone.

The real sad thing is people can not normally ask basic questions without people thinking they are ether creepy or so on now a days. Unless it is a guy asking a guy a normal question or a girl asking a girl a normal question.

I think its normal. However, my bf said it isnt so I decided to ask randoms to see if hes reading too much into it or Im wrong.

I usually just start off a with a ♥♥♥♥ pic.

That goes for any and all friend requests.

My wife says I'm insufferable, but she knows it comes from a good place.