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Escaping toxic masculinity as a male
I think i've finally figured out whats going on in my life.

These people i've been around for too long have been attempting to manipulate me into believing that i'm gay or a femboy or whatever other BS they are trying.

All because i don't believe in this stoicism or tough guy BS, being violent or tough or strong and using that against other males doesn't make you a man it makes you a coward.

you can be soft, you can be gentle, you can be vulnerable, you can be sensitive and there is nothing wrong with any of that it doesn't mean your gay or a femboy or any of the other BS they are trying to push on people.

don't believe these morons, they lack brains they are like a dinosaur on the verge of extinction and so they are lashing out however they can.

your weapon isn't your fists, it isn't a knife and it isn't a gun

it's your voice

i finally get it, so whadda ya say let's put these bullies where they belong

in prison

if you've been going through this ♥♥♥♥ too i'm here for you if you wanna talk

and if your one of them

don't waste your breath

i see right through all your BS and i am done with you

be strong my bros
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HeavyGoat 18 Oct @ 10:30pm 
What a waste of time. Find some different social circles.

Don't bother with "using your voice" to tell those blackpillers different, because they most likely aren't going to change. Just find some better people, and if you smell this pattern again, drop it quickly and do not wait.

From the description, it sounds like a bunch of crazy zoomers. Drop that if you're much older, I tell you even those who are 20 years old go on about this woke femboy futa illuminati stuff. Don't let yourself fall into the pit if it doesn't align with you — because clearly they keep forcing and harassing these roles onto everyone around.
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Arvaos ⚚ 18 Oct @ 10:33pm 
Find a place where people are free to be expressive and creative.

Those people you're associating with are very surface level and on lower planes of consciousness.
just a side note -
any guy who encourages another guy to be gay is at a minimum closeted themselves
99% of the time the 'tough guy show' is for their own insecurity as much as anything else

Dudes who are actually tough don't ever have to flex or tell anybody :wangwithit:
Hanging out with Andrew Tate fans or people who've been in military once and now think they're badass for serving time?
Wild Child 18 Oct @ 11:11pm 
I don't think they should be in prison just for being attracted to you. But very cute.
Morrandir 18 Oct @ 11:25pm 
I hate the term "toxic masculinity"

society requires all sorts of people to function as a unit, society needs its muscle men just as much as it needs its artists and philosophers, actually it needs more of the former than it needs the latter when talking in terms of percentages.
HeavyGoat 18 Oct @ 11:30pm 
Originally posted by Morrandir:
I hate the term "toxic masculinity"

society requires all sorts of people to function as a unit, society needs its muscle men just as much as it needs its artists and philosophers, actually it needs more of the former than it needs the latter when talking in terms of percentages.
Nah, we don't need any muscle men, we need TANKS!
dprog1995 18 Oct @ 11:31pm 
People talk a lot about toxic masculinity.

But how about toxic femininity ?
I mean if someone suggesting you might be gay is enough for you to seemingly have a low level nervous breakdown maybe you really are closeted.

I might be wrong of course but that's the only takeaway I got from your post.
Originally posted by Gracey Face:
I mean if someone suggesting you might be gay is enough for you to seemingly have a low level nervous breakdown maybe you really are closeted.

I might be wrong of course but that's the only takeaway I got from your post.

it's more like a long campaign of people who i thought were friends attempting to dismantle my self belief and identity it involved substances too so yeah little more complex than i previously explained, i mainly wanted to share this as a warning to any young people who may be being targeted by some of these extremist right wing groups i am fairly certain it is a strategy they are weaponising against certain people. no we do not need these people in our lives. i will never accept that.
Ysosrscat 19 Oct @ 12:05am 
Originally posted by Edward Von Worms:
Originally posted by Gracey Face:
I mean if someone suggesting you might be gay is enough for you to seemingly have a low level nervous breakdown maybe you really are closeted.

I might be wrong of course but that's the only takeaway I got from your post.

it's more like a long campaign of people who i thought were friends attempting to dismantle my self belief and identity it involved substances too so yeah little more complex than i previously explained, i mainly wanted to share this as a warning to any young people who may be being targeted by some of these extremist right wing groups i am fairly certain it is a strategy they are weaponising against certain people. no we do not need these people in our lives. i will never accept that.

Ah yes, the right wing is trying to recruit you into the gay community, very funny, well played good sir.
Originally posted by Ysosrscat:
Originally posted by Edward Von Worms:

it's more like a long campaign of people who i thought were friends attempting to dismantle my self belief and identity it involved substances too so yeah little more complex than i previously explained, i mainly wanted to share this as a warning to any young people who may be being targeted by some of these extremist right wing groups i am fairly certain it is a strategy they are weaponising against certain people. no we do not need these people in our lives. i will never accept that.

Ah yes, the right wing is trying to recruit you into the gay community, very funny, well played good sir.
The KKK were well known for their fondness for same sex marriage!
Originally posted by Ysosrscat:
Originally posted by Edward Von Worms:

it's more like a long campaign of people who i thought were friends attempting to dismantle my self belief and identity it involved substances too so yeah little more complex than i previously explained, i mainly wanted to share this as a warning to any young people who may be being targeted by some of these extremist right wing groups i am fairly certain it is a strategy they are weaponising against certain people. no we do not need these people in our lives. i will never accept that.

Ah yes, the right wing is trying to recruit you into the gay community, very funny, well played good sir.

what i am saying is that they are trying to use masculinity ideals to make straight men believe they are not straight the goal is to reduce the breeding pool and control women.
Ysosrscat 19 Oct @ 12:15am 
Originally posted by Edward Von Worms:
Originally posted by Ysosrscat:

Ah yes, the right wing is trying to recruit you into the gay community, very funny, well played good sir.

what i am saying is that they are trying to use masculinity ideals to make straight men believe they are not straight the goal is to reduce the breeding pool and control women.

That's not necessary, the left already does that.
Originally posted by Edward Von Worms:
Originally posted by Ysosrscat:

Ah yes, the right wing is trying to recruit you into the gay community, very funny, well played good sir.

what i am saying is that they are trying to use masculinity ideals to make straight men believe they are not straight the goal is to reduce the breeding pool and control women.
Ah yes, the guys who think that white and western people are in population decline and that they're being replaced and who beleive in monogamy are totally trying to stop guys from having children.

Who is it that you are interacting with that you think is right wing?
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