sexism, thats it

The key that open many locks versus the lock that is openend by many keys.

Originally posted by Espejismo:

sexism, thats it

yep, theres little else to it. that and a dash of traditional religious fundamentalism which views women as "sullied" if they are anything but a virgin. men however, even religious ones, are not upheld to the same standards strangely.

Originally posted by Voroff:

The key that open many locks versus the lock that is openend by many keys.

Women aren't locks. Why is it also solely their responsibility?

we live in a society, batman

Originally posted by Voroff:

The key that open many locks versus the lock that is openend by many keys.

object logic doesn't relate to human, an old Nokia phone could probably survive a fall from a building, an old person? not so much uwu

I don't know, but I truly do not find women who are promiscuous attractive. For any reason you all can dwell on. It's just something I find unattractive. Just like I can't change you... you can't change me. And if you want me as a partner, I prefer people who aren't promiscuous.

I would also always have a doubt on paternity.

And the same toxic culture glorifies careless promiscuity as some kind of 'gold standard' for men.

It's definitely a double standard, and it's equally disgusting on both ends.

Originally posted by Boblin the Goblin:

Originally posted by Voroff:

The key that open many locks versus the lock that is openend by many keys.

Women aren't locks. Why is it also solely their responsibility?

Hey, i was responding to the opening post, nothin' more. Hate is hate, i do not partake in it - i even have a whole humor based on makin' fun of stereotypes. But what i said is -texto- the "meme" around that hate.
Tell me you've never heard it before, and i'll have trouble believing you.

Originally posted by Sit With Me:

I don't know, but I truly do not find women who are promiscuous attractive. For any reason you all can dwell on. It's just something I find unattractive. Just like I can't change you... you can't change me. And if you want me as a partner, I prefer people who aren't promiscuous.

I would also always have a doubt on paternity.

thats not what op is getting at though. not finding promiscuity attractive is fine as long as you do not judge the person for it. but ops point is that women who are promiscuous are scrutinised about a hundred times more than men who are.

Originally posted by salamander:

Originally posted by Sit With Me:

I don't know, but I truly do not find women who are promiscuous attractive. For any reason you all can dwell on. It's just something I find unattractive. Just like I can't change you... you can't change me. And if you want me as a partner, I prefer people who aren't promiscuous.

I would also always have a doubt on paternity.

thats not what op is getting at though. not finding promiscuity attractive is fine as long as you do not judge the person for it. but ops point is that women who are promiscuous are scrutinised about a hundred times more than men who are.

Finding someone attractive or not is a judgement.

Originally posted by Sit With Me:

Originally posted by salamander:

thats not what op is getting at though. not finding promiscuity attractive is fine as long as you do not judge the person for it. but ops point is that women who are promiscuous are scrutinised about a hundred times more than men who are.

Finding someone attractive or not is a judgement.

of a sort, yes. but you do not have to consider them a bad person for the things about them you find unattractive.

Originally posted by Sit With Me:

Originally posted by salamander:

thats not what op is getting at though. not finding promiscuity attractive is fine as long as you do not judge the person for it. but ops point is that women who are promiscuous are scrutinised about a hundred times more than men who are.

Finding someone attractive or not is a judgement.

They mean judging the quality of the person based on promiscuity or not. Not judging personal attractiveness.

Originally posted by Sit With Me:

Originally posted by salamander:

thats not what op is getting at though. not finding promiscuity attractive is fine as long as you do not judge the person for it. but ops point is that women who are promiscuous are scrutinised about a hundred times more than men who are.

Finding someone attractive or not is a judgement.

do you have to find someone attractive just to not go out of your way purposely disrepect them? uwu

Timbaland knows.

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