Why do people think that lacking attraction to someone due to looks is morally bad

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Kestrel 11 hours ago

Tbh it's morally worse that people just gaslight each other constantly about how it doesn't matter whatsoever, or evade telling people the truth because they think it'll make them look bad. If you're not attracted to someone, you're not attracted to them. You shouldn't say, "You're ugly as ♥♥♥♥ boy," but simply, "sorry, I'm not attracted to you" without causing any insecurities by pointing out certain things is fine.

IMO, the only people who genuinely don't care about looks are actually asexual (aka lacking in sexual attraction, so there is no attraction to worry about to begin with) or have an extremely low libido; in either case there's no need for their partner to be attractive because they are solely getting together based on companionship rather than an additional requirement of attraction/a sexual relationship (which is not bad to have, you want what you want and it is morally neutral.)

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Kids with parents SUCK!🤬😭 11 hours ago

I've seen people so ugly they hurt my eyes

Ice Scream 9 hours ago

Everyone is beautiful in their own way. If everyone had high self-confidence, we wouldn't have this dilemma where it's morally bad to reject someone based on looks. But I do agree that the delivery of the rejection is what matters.

Vinz Clortho 9 hours ago

Originally posted by Kestrel:
Why do people think that lacking attraction to someone due to looks is morally bad

They are ugly

yui8 8 hours ago

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videogames10 8 hours ago

Originally posted by Kestrel:

Why do people think that lacking attraction to someone due to looks is morally bad

Physical attraction is a primal instinct that will remain with us forever. There's nothing anyone can say or do to change that fact. Although a good joke or two may be reason enough to spend one evening together.

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admiral1018 8 hours ago

Who thinks it's morally bad to find someone unattractive? It's only immoral if you belittle the other person and try to make them feel ugly.

Rebecca 8 hours ago

The ones who complain about stuff like that are unattractive themselves, because otherwise why would they care? The truth is that no one wants to be with someone ugly. Being attractive means you have more options. But a lot of people these days don't want to hear that. They're far too fragile.

Nülliflower 8 hours ago

i'm attracted to earth. by attracted i mean it's literally impossible for me to leave this dumb rock alone. i say it's immoral for the planet to be holding me hostage 25/7, but it doesn't seem to care.

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Uncle Sam 8 hours ago

Originally posted by admiral1018:
Who thinks it's morally bad to find someone unattractive? It's only immoral if you belittle the other person and try to make them feel ugly.

Agreed with this @OP. it's only when you start to pour salt in the wound, when a person is immoral.

salamander 7 hours ago

ah, its not. physical attraction is extremely important for any relationship, and is the very first thing you will ever notice about someone because you cannae see into their mind and know their hopes and dreams quite yet. i do not think it is vain or superficial to wish to have a partner you find physically attractive, because once the initial dating steps are done you begin to fall in love with who they are as a person as well.

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Γαῖα 7 hours ago

While law of attraction is eternal it does not dictate what it is someone finds attractive in another.
There are two camps
Those that are attracted to what they feel they lack in themselves and those who feel they see themselves in the other.
Neither guarantees a happy outcome if one does not look beyond the veneer.

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tili1 7 hours ago

People, in general, don't like when you are too picky in regards to your partners. Only going for the super attractive is seen as snob.
Also, some will say is unpolite to call someone ugly even if it is true, specially if that somene is asking someone out, which is a vulnerable spot.

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I.C.E agent 7 hours ago

See what you see onine usually doesn’t happen in real life. Some butthurt people that got bullied in real life started their revenge actions online with virtual signaling to influence others.
Believe me, as you get older you don’t give a ♥♥♥♥ about what others think of you. You will start to please yourself and taste more. Just quit social medias filled with woke mobs who never do what they virtual signal online

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Felix Argyle 7 hours ago

I heard guys stop caring about girls weight when they are middle aged cause they like a lil thickness

I heard girls are depressed nyow cause they had so much competition

I saw the really hot girls who are twitch streamers or youtubers get stalked a lot and have to date ugly shady guys for protection or alright looking guys with roid rage

Ive seen girls marry gay guys for marriage benefits

ive seen it all man