Accentuate your Masculinity

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Fajita Jim 23 Oct @ 7:12pm

Accentuate your Masculinity

Attracting females doesn't begin with saying 'hi'. They're watching, even if they don't realize it. So stand out.

Proper posture accentuates the male attributes, like broad shoulders, chest, and V shaped back.

Keeps arms and hands visible and relaxed. No hands in pockets, no folded arms.

Walk with purpose. Don't drag your feet but don't be hurried, either. A mans gait comes from the hip and shoulders, keep your upper body stable, not stiff.

Don't dart your eyes or look around nervously. Slow, scanning eye movements suggest calm, controlled awareness.

Speak slightly slower than you think you should. This shows composure and control.

A steady, deliberate tone shows both concentration and control. Don't uptalk, ie raising the pitch at the end of a sentence.

People sense when someone moves or speaks with purpose. This should be you.

In groups, take control without dominating. Suggest where to go, where to sit, etc.

Finally: Kindly and calmly saying 'no' is one of the most attractive signals of self-respect.

Okay OT, bring on the hate.

Last edited by Fajita Jim; 23 Oct @ 7:13pm

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BuhnieBealla 23 Oct @ 7:14pm

Idk sometimes I like my prey to look weak uwu

Fuki 23 Oct @ 7:15pm

Self-discipline is important. Don't buy into social subversion encouraged by modern society.

Apollo702 23 Oct @ 7:16pm

Wow do I love this list!!

Give me some time and maybe there could be some supplemental points along these lines.

This stuff is all textbook things that need to be in the guy code and I fear that they aren't being taught.

I fear that too many young men are being brought up without fathers- and even many fathers that are there are not teaching some of the basics and setting their sons up for a rough ride in life.

They are going to get out there and things are continually going to feel off. They won't understand why nothing is functioning as it should. They won't know where the rejection is constantly coming from.

salamander 23 Oct @ 7:17pm

i am about as feminine as a male can get, every woman i have ever dated has been okay with this. some have different tastes and all that.

Midori's Ghost 23 Oct @ 7:18pm

Overthinking how you and every one of your mannerisms is perceived doesn't sound very majestic

Fajita Jim 23 Oct @ 7:21pm

Originally posted by Apollo702:
Wow do I love this list!!

Give me some time and maybe there could be some supplemental points along these lines.

This stuff is all textbook things that need to be in the guy code and I fear that they aren't being taught.

I fear that too many young men are being brought up without fathers- and even many fathers that are there are not teaching some of the basics and setting their sons up for a rough ride in life.

They are going to get out there and things are continually going to feel off. They won't understand why nothing is functioning as it should. They won't know where the rejection is constantly coming from.

Honestly, I learned almost all of that through a decade of clubbing (in the 90s ♥♥♥♥ yeah!) and both striking out and scoring.

Hard lessons, but I figure they're largely universal.

Fajita Jim 23 Oct @ 7:23pm

Originally posted by Midori:
Overthinking how you and every one of your mannerisms is perceived doesn't sound very majestic

It's training.

I have a Marine Corps dad who used to slap me on the back and say "Chin up!"

And guess what? I can't not do Chin Up, now. It's my nature.

Training isn't to get something second nature, it's to make something your actual instinct.

Apollo702 23 Oct @ 7:23pm

Originally posted by Fajita Jim:
Originally posted by Apollo702:
Snip.

Honestly, I learned almost all of that through a decade of clubbing (in the 90s ♥♥♥♥ yeah!) and both striking out and scoring.

Hard lessons, but I figure they're largely universal.

Many of us followed that path.

Many of us "jerks" are former "nice guys" who used to walk around with our heads down and learned our lessons.

For many, there comes a point in which we get sick of losing out in everything from dating to jobs and start playing to win.

Piotrek 23 Oct @ 7:24pm

I go to fitness to tiny

xDDD 23 Oct @ 7:24pm

Thank you, Mr. Tate.

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76561198164054483 23 Oct @ 7:26pm

What call female sickens everyone.

Originally posted by Fajita Jim:
Originally posted by Midori:
Overthinking how you and every one of your mannerisms is perceived doesn't sound very majestic

It's training.

I have a Marine Corps dad who used to slap me on the back and say "Chin up!"

And guess what? I can't not do Chin Up, now. It's my nature.

Training isn't to get something second nature, it's to make something your actual instinct.

Have.

Appreciate the headhunting. Plenty of career in fine tuning Tulips to grow.
Plenty of hope.

How'd do ya do? is gentlemanly. Masculinity is proving their not worthy.

Last edited by SAY; 23 Oct @ 7:28pm

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Apollo702 23 Oct @ 7:29pm

The majority of communication is non-verbal.

About a month ago, some of the permavirgins tried to call me a PUA.

No. I was pointing out that socially, by the time that people start speaking it already is over.

I said to forget about things like pickup lines and all that nonsense. The way that someone walks into the room or the way that they are standing there is what really is setting the table for all the rest to follow.

Things have started before people realize that they began.

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Fajita Jim 23 Oct @ 7:31pm

Originally posted by Apollo702:
The majority of communication is non-verbal.

About a month ago, some of the permavirgins tried to call me a PUA.

No. I was pointing out that socially, by the time that people start speaking it already is over.

I said to forget about things like pickup lines and all that nonsense. The way that someone walks into the room or the way that they are standing there is what really is setting the table for all the rest to follow.

Things have started before people realize that they began.

I had a nuclear weapon: Look at her ear ring.

Seriously, just show interest in her ear ring, gently put your finger behind her ear and stare intensely at her ear ring for a second or two, just long enough to get one or two normal breaths off near her ear.

Now pull back and watch the goose bumps rise on her neck.

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Apollo702 23 Oct @ 7:32pm

Originally posted by Fajita Jim:
Originally posted by Apollo702:
The majority of communication is non-verbal.

Snip.

I had a nuclear weapon: Look at her ear ring.

Seriously, just show interest in her ear ring, gently put your finger behind her ear and stare intensely at her ear ring for a second or two, just long enough to get one or two normal breaths off near her ear.

Now pull back and watch the goose bumps rise on her neck.

Oh do I like that one.

And it's near the hair too!

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Piotrek 23 Oct @ 7:34pm

Originally posted by Fajita Jim:
Originally posted by Apollo702:
The majority of communication is non-verbal.

About a month ago, some of the permavirgins tried to call me a PUA.

No. I was pointing out that socially, by the time that people start speaking it already is over.

I said to forget about things like pickup lines and all that nonsense. The way that someone walks into the room or the way that they are standing there is what really is setting the table for all the rest to follow.

Things have started before people realize that they began.

I had a nuclear weapon: Look at her ear ring.

Seriously, just show interest in her ear ring, gently put your finger behind her ear and stare intensely at her ear ring for a second or two, just long enough to get one or two normal breaths off near her ear.

Now pull back and watch the goose bumps rise on her neck.