yes, so i can understand them.

im autistic. i could give a long winded explanation of why i prefer self comparison as opposed to say comparison via mutuality, but youll just call me retarded and fail to read anything i said.

To an extent but I don’t ever let it define me. For example if I see someone who is successful I want to aspire to be successful too. It’s more of motivation than anything.

Originally posted by WarHeRo:

do u compare urself to others
why

Social construct.

When I'm walking through Wal-Mart.

I know I'm not the ugliest person in there.

Originally posted by o:

i could give a long winded explanation of why i prefer self comparison as opposed to say comparison via mutuality, but youll just call me retarded and fail to read anything i said.

try me

Originally posted by Bassturd:

When I'm walking through Wal-Mart.

I know I'm not the ugliest person in there.

Are you absolutely sure?

Originally posted by WarHeRo:

Originally posted by o:

i could give a long winded explanation of why i prefer self comparison as opposed to say comparison via mutuality, but youll just call me retarded and fail to read anything i said.

try me

mutualism ties personal identity into the mutualized experience or object, not only warping both but taking both out of anyones hands.

Originally posted by Riruru:

Originally posted by Bassturd:

When I'm walking through Wal-Mart.

I know I'm not the ugliest person in there.

Are you absolutely sure?

wow... thats mean... i would habe expected that from other users... but not u

Originally posted by o:

Originally posted by WarHeRo:

try me

mutualism ties personal identity into the mutualized experience or object, not only warping both but taking both out of anyones hands.

would it not fuse them

Originally posted by WarHeRo:

Originally posted by o:

mutualism ties personal identity into the mutualized experience or object, not only warping both but taking both out of anyones hands.

would it not fuse them

you mean melt the people and the object into a metal ingot, like some kind of golem?

no that is destruction and remaking. the individuals involved are destroyed.

their ideas about the object, their personal interpretations, are also destroyed.

no not at all im me dont believe in trying to be the next ni**a even though i cant stand my life half the time i still maintain my self respect has a person i walk my own path.

Originally posted by TamoDATopGoon:

no not at all im me dont believe in trying to be the next ni**a even though i cant stand my life half the time i still maintain my self respect has a person i walk my own path.

you are telling me to opt out of caring about my own life, because all i can see is the ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ tripping me at the moment right?

if you were the ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥, would this be a 'look at me' your disease is doing at my expense again?

tell me how you didnt direct this at me. go on.

Originally posted by o:

Originally posted by WarHeRo:

would it not fuse them

you mean melt the people and the object into a metal ingot, like some kind of golem?

no that is destruction and remaking. the individuals involved are destroyed.

their ideas about the object, their personal interpretations, are also destroyed.

i understand

Originally posted by o:

Originally posted by TamoDATopGoon:

no not at all im me dont believe in trying to be the next ni**a even though i cant stand my life half the time i still maintain my self respect has a person i walk my own path.

you are telling me to opt out of caring about my own life, because all i can see is the ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ tripping me at the moment right?

if you were the ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥, would this be a 'look at me' your disease is doing at my expense again?

im not telling you anything i really dont recall talking directly to you about this so i dont get why you would think that. umm you do what you want with your life im not here to hold your hand and no one in this chat is going to either carve your own path

Nah, thats exactly why I got rid of facebook too. Most of my peers are living with a fake front and they are all competing to be "Better" than each other.

99% of the time you dont see the real struggles they face, but just a facade that they put for the public, its sad really.

I think they are lying to theirselves as much as they are to everyone else.

You should look for happiness from within, from understanding yourself. One of my favorite quotes lately is.

Jean-Paul Sartre, "If you are lonely when you're alone, you are in bad company,"

Lmao, its so true though.

There will always be winners, and there will always be losers, thats how it works. I just dont understand why us losers arent entitled to a basic quality of living, why does it feel like im asking for trillions of dollars or world peace or something when I say that though.

If all you do is compare yourself to others, you will never be happy. Its a contest that just never ends with mainstream society.