Don't do it.

Have you ever actually met on Camera? If not, it's most likely not a girl.

Originally posted by GhostyOsty:

Have you ever actually met on Camera? If not, it's most likely not a girl.

^ This. Online relationship scams are very prevalent.

These threads are always so creepy.

Girl = Guy in real life

imagine your hot girl is just some middle aged man, fat, in his boxers with an ill fitting tank top showing his hairy belly and arms. the tanktop is heavily sweated on and covered in 3 day old food remains, he has unkempt hair, balding in a horseshoe pattern but still some hair above for a comb-over, he wears thick rimmed glasses and has a full beard.

so you move in with this girl you are madly in love with, only to find out she is this guy who is scratching himself, burps and smiles at you, his teeth covered in plaque, badly misshaped teeth worn away from years of drinking fizzy crap and orange juice, his breath stinks enough to knock you out in one go.

So make sure this girl is who she claims to be before you do anything of the sorts. in fact you should of done some checking before you got your hopes up, because you are likely to crash and burn so hard that this forum will feel the after-effects. You should keep your expectations in check.

My first "online relationship" was in 1990, I think. Since then, I've had several others. And NONE of them have worked out. If you want a good, stable IRL relationship, you have to get out and meet people. IMO.

I think it is depend is you and the girl are love each other? Love from one side is not really enough. To be honest, girl like someone take care about them so it is better stay with them. If love only from one side, then forced together will be a bad choice. Anyway, I think jump from someway for love is not worth because if she not love you then you can still find someone that you love and love you.

first of all don't ask advice in mf steam forums XD

sure its a girl?
distant relationships is almost guarantee a fail in the long run.
But theres always exceptions, few but there are.

Being in an online relationship means you're in a non-intimate relationship, which means you're in a regular friend-based relationship.

If you're interfacing with letters and pictures and have fallen in love with said letters and pictures, than you may need to take a step back and reassess how you see relationships.

That being said, whatever you do: DON'T SEND HER MONEY!

to respond to everyone so far:
i asked where can i find a place or forum, to ask there advices
second, yes, she's a girl, she sends me pics with her from time to time (all ages) and we talk to each other on phone and voice chat.
also, yes, she is writting me and tells me at times, that she loves me, but she's ''sus'' lately
that;s why, i was asking where can i find my answers, to her behaviours, from her fellow girl gender, cuz girls know best how a girl can think xD

Originally posted by Yew Nough:

Being in an online relationship means you're in a non-intimate relationship, which means you're in a regular friend-based relationship.

If you're interfacing with letters and pictures and have fallen in love with said letters and pictures, than you may need to take a step back and reassess how you see relationships.

That being said, whatever you do: DON'T SEND HER MONEY! :mhwgood:

she asked me to move in her town, so she wants me, psihically, but first, i gotta save up some more for moving there, rent, bills and food...all .alone there when she won't be able to visit me and stuff.

Originally posted by Platinum H:

to respond to everyone so far:
i asked where can i find a place or forum, to ask there advices
second, yes, she's a girl, she sends me pics with her from time to time (all ages) and we talk to each other on phone and voice chat.
also, yes, she is writting me and tells me at times, that she loves me, but she's ''sus'' lately
that;s why, i was asking where can i find my answers, to her behaviours, from her fellow girl gender, cuz girls know best how a girl can think xD

pic etc can be fakes, voice could be friend messing with you or using a modulator.
could be a real fat slob on the other side enjoying your sex chats.

and rule of thumb, women always are a bit quirky time to time.

Originally posted by Yew Nough:

DON'T SEND HER MONEY!

only on steam from time to time, either 5-10 euros or a game or 2, around the same price, but no more than 50 euros since winter, only when i feel like, i mean, she does really deserve a reward, from time to time